Bride Tip #9 from Logan wedding photographer Lauren Kay Photography.

 

Why are you even getting married? Really? It’s about him, remember! Don’t lose sight of what your wedding even is. It’s the start of your marriage and life together. You get to marry the man of your dreams! It’s a celebration of your relationship. So make sure there is a healthy, growing relationship to celebrate.

 

Take time to talk, go on dates, and keep building your relationship. Don’t push him away. Keep your relationship light and fun. Planning a wedding is overwhelming and being engaged is rough. Do your best to keep your relationship healthy and thriving.

 

Your relationship is the whole point. Keep it the focus.

 

 

Here are some specific ideas:

Date Nights:

• Take the Love Languages Quiz
• Sketch rooms for your dream home together
• Play a sport together or go on a walk
• Do coloring pages or watercolor
• Video yourselves telling your love story and show it at your wedding
• Bake a legit dessert together
• Play a board game or cards
• Watch a sport you both don’t care about and get super into it

Be creative. Be silly. Have a great time together!

 

Take time to connect:

Guys may come across as not wanting to talk and connect, but really they just need loving probing. Take time to talk with your groom every day. Really try to see how he’s doing. Questions like these might help:

• What made you feel proud today?
• What made you feel silly or wimpy today?
• What bothered you today, even though you felt like it shouldn’t have?
• What made you feel loved and secure today?

 

Sweet Things:

• Give him a note every day that says “I’m excited to marry you because…”
• Take him lunch and eat with him
• Give him a back rub
• Get him a small gift he’d love
• Run an errand for him

 

Date Night Questions:

• What is your favorite childhood memory?
• How would you describe an ideal day?
• What would you love if I did it for you?
• What would be on the perfect pizza?
• What is your favorite memory of us?
• What big dream do you have?
• What is something you really appreciate about me?
• What are your best qualities in your opinion?
• If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
• What fad did you never get into?
• What’s something you want to ask me but never have?

 

The best list of questions, they’re hilarious! https://conversationstartersworld.com/funny-questions-to-ask/